Who Wears a Boutonniere in a Wedding? A Complete Guide

A boutonniere is a small but meaningful detail that adds a touch of elegance to wedding attire. While it may seem like a simple floral decoration, boutonnieres carry historical, cultural, and symbolic significance. In this guide, we'll explore everything you need to know about boutonnieres—who wear them, how to choose them, and how to ensure they fit perfectly into your wedding theme.

What is the Significance of a Boutonniere in a Wedding?

The tradition of wearing a boutonniere dates back to the early 19th century. In those times, flowers were worn on the lapel to signify wealth, status, or affiliation with a group. Today, boutonnieres symbolize elegance, honor, and unity, tying the groom and wedding party together as they celebrate the union of two people.

Who Typically Wears a Boutonniere?

Here's a list of who traditionally wears a boutonniere at a wedding:

1. The Groom

   • The groom usually wears a boutonniere that matches the bride's bouquet. It is often a single flower that complements the wedding color scheme and theme. For example, if the bride's bouquet is a mix of white and blush roses, the groom's boutonniere might be a single white rose.

2. Groomsmen

   • The groomsmen typically wear boutonnieres that match the bridesmaids' bouquets. The colors and flowers used in the boutonnieres complement the wedding's overall color scheme and theme. It is essential to ensure that the groomsmen's boutonnieres are slightly different from the groom's boutonnieres, as it is a subtle way to distinguish the groom from his groomsmen.

3. Fathers of the Bride and Groom

   • Both fathers can wear boutonnieres as a meaningful way to symbolize their significant roles in the wedding ceremony.

4. Ushers and Ring Bearers

   • Ushers and ring bearers traditionally play essential roles in the wedding ceremony, and wearing boutonnieres can be a thoughtful addition to their attire, particularly for formal weddings. Donning these floral accessories enhances the bridal party's overall aesthetic and signifies their unique role in the celebration. Boutonnieres can be selected to match the wedding's color scheme or the couple's floral arrangements, adding a cohesive and stylish element to the event.

5. Close Family Members

   • Grandfathers and other crucial male family members often wear boutonnieres as a meaningful gesture of respect and inclusion during significant family events. This tradition not only honors their pivotal roles within the family but also symbolizes their connection to the occasion, celebrating their presence and significance in the lives of their loved ones.

When choosing the right boutonniere for your wedding, it is crucial to consider the overall style and theme of your wedding. Work with your florist to select flowers and colors that complement your wedding decor and create a cohesive look. It is also essential to consider the season and availability of flowers when selecting your boutonnieres.

Floral Facts: Addressing Common Questions about Boutonniere Flowers.

How do you Pin a Boutonniere?

Pinning a boutonniere can be tricky, but it's easy once you know the steps:

1. Place the boutonniere on the left lapel, just above the heart.
2. Insert a pin from behind the lapel, securing the stem firmly.
3. Ensure the boutonniere sits upright and doesn't tilt forward.

What Flowers are Commonly used for Boutonnieres?

When selecting flowers for boutonnieres, consider their symbolism and availability. Here are some popular choices:

• Roses (classic and romantic)
• Carnations (durable and versatile)
• Baby's Breath (simple and elegant)
• Succulents (modern and unique)
• Orchids (exotic and luxurious)

Matching Boutonnieres to Your Wedding Theme

To create a cohesive look, match the boutonniere to your wedding's overall style:

• Rustic Weddings: Use wildflowers or greenery like eucalyptus.
• Modern Weddings: Consider sleek flowers like calla lilies or orchids.
• Seasonal Themes: Choose flowers in season to ensure freshness and reduce costs.

What are alternative boutonniere options for non-traditional weddings?

Not every wedding sticks to tradition, and that's okay! Here are some creative boutonniere alternatives:

• Feathers or dried flowers for a boho vibe.
• Pins, badges, or charms for a non-floral option.
• Mini succulents are a trendy and eco-friendly choice.

Are Boutonnieres Necessary for Casual Weddings?

In casual weddings, boutonnieres are optional. However, they can still be a great way to make the groom and wedding party stand out. Consider simpler designs or skip them altogether if they don't match your vision.

How Much Do Wedding Boutonnieres Cost?

The cost of a boutonniere varies depending on the flowers and design. On average:

• Simple boutonnieres: $20 each.
• Custom, elaborate designs: $45 or more.

Can Boutonnieres Be Preserved?

If you want to keep your boutonniere as a memento, here are some tips:

1. Dry It: Hang the boutonniere upside down to dry naturally.
2. Press It: Place the flower between heavy books to preserve it as a flat keepsake.
3. Frame It: Use a shadow box to display your preserved boutonniere.

Why Choose Lia's Flowers for Your Wedding Boutonnieres?

At Lia's Flowers, we understand that every wedding is unique, and we're here to help you create the perfect floral details to match your special day. Here's why you should trust us for your wedding boutonnieres:

• Personalized Service: We work closely with you to design boutonnieres that align with your wedding theme, colors, and style.
• Expert Craftsmanship: With years of experience, we craft elegant and durable boutonnieres that look stunning throughout your event.
• Unique Designs: Our designs are tailored to reflect your vision, from traditional floral arrangements to modern alternatives.
• Inspired by Nature: Our arrangements feature lush greenery, delicate blooms, and touches inspired by the beauty of Oregon's forests.

Make your wedding unforgettable with Lia's Flowers. For your personal wedding flower concierge service, call or text 818-642-1308. Let us bring your vision to life!